Someone asked me today how it felt to be "almost old and 30". Strangely, I didn't even have to think about it before answering and it's so liberating!
My answer was/is this:
I'm more excited than upset.
I've had gray hair for 10 years now- so that's nothing new. I accept that I'll be spending 2 hours stuck in a salon chair once a month from here on out. No big deal.
I'm pretty sure I'm accomplishing things in the order I should be. It's not the perfect receipe for everyone but it works for me. Building up my career- building up my life- dating and (most importantly) learning from each relationship. Solidifying relationships with the friends and family I love- and making sure they know exactly how I feel.
I'm in better shape physically and mentally now than I was at the age of 20. Back then, I walked with my head hung low, didn't know the importance of eye contact, didn't have the self esteem to get out and enjoy myself on the dance floor. It all takes time. You've gotta marinate.
Now, I feel strong, confidant and ready for a new chapter of life that I'm positive will totally trump all of the great things I think I've experienced thus far.
As far as my biological clock- yeah, it's ticking. Not gonna lie about that. But, I'm smart enough to know it's nothing that should be rushed. Just like everything else I've experienced- It'll all happen when it's meant to. I'm pretty grateful and pleased with the life I've lived this far and I'm honestly excited about what's to come.
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Get yerself some TAX RELIEF!
They give a buncha breaks on a day like today- so why not enjoy the freebies?!
Here's a list of local places (with the exception of Taco Del Mar, I think) that are shelling out free goods all day today: FREEEEEEEEEEEE STUFF!!
Here's a list of local places (with the exception of Taco Del Mar, I think) that are shelling out free goods all day today: FREEEEEEEEEEEE STUFF!!
Monday, April 5, 2010
Tiger, go away...
Sitting here watching the Tiger Woods 2pm press conference on CNN...
It lends a few ideas to explain a small bit about why people might fear commitment. After all of the trials and tribulations we go through in attempt to find a "mate for life", there's stuff like that to worry about. I'm not even pointing fingers at one particular gender or another. It's mind blowing to think that a human being can be capable of leading what, in essence is a double life- times a dozen! The guy was hooking up with enough women to fill a short bus and... he wasn't just sleeping with them! They weren't one-shot deals. He was building and maintaining emotional relationships with all of them. Flying them across the globe. Having sleepovers in hotel rooms. Going out for Subway wraps. Watching Desperate Housewives. All in the name of ego. I'm baffled by any human being capable of creating relationships like these. It's truly sickening and sad all at the same time.
It lends a few ideas to explain a small bit about why people might fear commitment. After all of the trials and tribulations we go through in attempt to find a "mate for life", there's stuff like that to worry about. I'm not even pointing fingers at one particular gender or another. It's mind blowing to think that a human being can be capable of leading what, in essence is a double life- times a dozen! The guy was hooking up with enough women to fill a short bus and... he wasn't just sleeping with them! They weren't one-shot deals. He was building and maintaining emotional relationships with all of them. Flying them across the globe. Having sleepovers in hotel rooms. Going out for Subway wraps. Watching Desperate Housewives. All in the name of ego. I'm baffled by any human being capable of creating relationships like these. It's truly sickening and sad all at the same time.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Doin' It Yourself
Saw THIS while surfing the web tonight. Some decent suggestions for DIY solutions! I particularly enjoy the old tuna can trick!
Friday, April 2, 2010
Revamping
YES, it's that time of the year. Spring cleaning. Taking giant trash bags full of unused goods to Goodwill for someone else to enjoy. Purging myself of all things unnecessary. Feels good. And, thanks to my love of decor, my wonderfuly stylish former General Manager and a my fabulously informed gay friend, Matt, my house is becoming a home.
My problem has always been this- the fact that I am good at accessorizing but terrible when it comes to choosing large pieces. Same goes for my outfits. The clothing might be off but I always nail it with accessories. So, I need these two to keep me in line. My first step, after selling all of my existing bedroom furniture, was searching for a bed. I'm kinda through with sleeping on a mattress and boxspring on the floor. I'm also sick of having my belongings strewn about all over the place.
So- the look I'm transitioning into is more of a Baroque style and if you have any suggestions for side tables and furniture- I'm game! Also looking for other accessories and wall decor ideas.
Hook me up!
My problem has always been this- the fact that I am good at accessorizing but terrible when it comes to choosing large pieces. Same goes for my outfits. The clothing might be off but I always nail it with accessories. So, I need these two to keep me in line. My first step, after selling all of my existing bedroom furniture, was searching for a bed. I'm kinda through with sleeping on a mattress and boxspring on the floor. I'm also sick of having my belongings strewn about all over the place.
So- the look I'm transitioning into is more of a Baroque style and if you have any suggestions for side tables and furniture- I'm game! Also looking for other accessories and wall decor ideas.
Hook me up!
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Help Haiti. Do something... Anything...
UNICEF has a fund set up to help affected children and is accepts donations of any size.
AmeriCares specializes in international emeregncy relief and lifsaving aid around the world. They accept donations from $50.
The American Red Cross is also accepting donations through their International Response Fund
**Starting today-- AAdvantage members can earn a one-time award of 250 bonus AAdvantage miles for a minimum donation of $50 or 500 bonus miles for a donation of $100 or more to the American Red Cross through Feb. 28, 2010. Check AA.com for details.
• Red Cross: Text "HAITI" to 90999 to donate $10 to Red Cross relief efforts. Visit www.redcross.org or donate to the International Relief Fund or the Haitian Red Cross by sending checks to Greater Palm Beach Area Chapter of the American Red Cross, 825 Fern Street, West Palm Beach, FL 33401 and making a designation on the check. 100% of the money designated will go to the Red Cross relief efforts in Haiti.
• Missionary Flights International makes regular flights to Haiti, including one Wednesday. Donate at www.missionaryflights.org
• The Catholic Diocese Palm Beach will hold a special collection this weekend to provide aid to the people of Haiti. Proceeds will go to the Catholic Relief Services. Persons wishing to donate directly to CRS can send checks, noting “Earthquake in Haiti”, to Catholic Relief Services, P.O. Box 17090, Baltimore, MD 21203, or call 1-877-435-7277, or go online at http://crs-blog.org/earthquake-hits-haiti/
• Food for the Poor is accepting its donations at http://www.foodforthepoor.org/haitiquake . The Coconut-Creek based organization, which has an office and warehouse in Haiti that was damaged, is seeking donations to buy emergency supplies and lumber to rebuild homes.
• Publix Super Markets is allowing customers to make donations at the check out registers. Collected money will go to the American Red Cross for the Haiti Relief and Development Fund.
• Operation Helping Hands, a joint community project of The Miami Herald and United Way-Miami, will be collecting donations to support the relief effort in Haiti. To make a contribution, go to www.iwant2help.org
• Wyclef Jean: Donate to Haiti via Wyclef Jean's charity. Text “yele” to 501501 to donate $5 to the fund. Or visit www.yele.org
• World Vision has 370 staff in Haiti and is accepting donations at WorldVision.com or call 1-800-363-5021.
• The Pan American Development Foundation (PADF) -- the natural disaster relief arm of the OAS -- asks people to visit its special relief website, www.PanAmericanRelief.org.
• The Archdiocese of Miami is accepting financial donations to assist with recovery efforts. Send donations to Catholic Charities, 1505 NE 26th St. Wilton Manors, FL 33305, Attention Earthquake Victims.
AmeriCares specializes in international emeregncy relief and lifsaving aid around the world. They accept donations from $50.
The American Red Cross is also accepting donations through their International Response Fund
**Starting today-- AAdvantage members can earn a one-time award of 250 bonus AAdvantage miles for a minimum donation of $50 or 500 bonus miles for a donation of $100 or more to the American Red Cross through Feb. 28, 2010. Check AA.com for details.
• Red Cross: Text "HAITI" to 90999 to donate $10 to Red Cross relief efforts. Visit www.redcross.org or donate to the International Relief Fund or the Haitian Red Cross by sending checks to Greater Palm Beach Area Chapter of the American Red Cross, 825 Fern Street, West Palm Beach, FL 33401 and making a designation on the check. 100% of the money designated will go to the Red Cross relief efforts in Haiti.
• Missionary Flights International makes regular flights to Haiti, including one Wednesday. Donate at www.missionaryflights.org
• The Catholic Diocese Palm Beach will hold a special collection this weekend to provide aid to the people of Haiti. Proceeds will go to the Catholic Relief Services. Persons wishing to donate directly to CRS can send checks, noting “Earthquake in Haiti”, to Catholic Relief Services, P.O. Box 17090, Baltimore, MD 21203, or call 1-877-435-7277, or go online at http://crs-blog.org/earthquake-hits-haiti/
• Food for the Poor is accepting its donations at http://www.foodforthepoor.org/haitiquake . The Coconut-Creek based organization, which has an office and warehouse in Haiti that was damaged, is seeking donations to buy emergency supplies and lumber to rebuild homes.
• Publix Super Markets is allowing customers to make donations at the check out registers. Collected money will go to the American Red Cross for the Haiti Relief and Development Fund.
• Operation Helping Hands, a joint community project of The Miami Herald and United Way-Miami, will be collecting donations to support the relief effort in Haiti. To make a contribution, go to www.iwant2help.org
• Wyclef Jean: Donate to Haiti via Wyclef Jean's charity. Text “yele” to 501501 to donate $5 to the fund. Or visit www.yele.org
• World Vision has 370 staff in Haiti and is accepting donations at WorldVision.com or call 1-800-363-5021.
• The Pan American Development Foundation (PADF) -- the natural disaster relief arm of the OAS -- asks people to visit its special relief website, www.PanAmericanRelief.org.
• The Archdiocese of Miami is accepting financial donations to assist with recovery efforts. Send donations to Catholic Charities, 1505 NE 26th St. Wilton Manors, FL 33305, Attention Earthquake Victims.
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